Hosting International Students, What's It Like?

Why We Choose to Homestay: An AACS Family Story

Read about how the Whitney family became a homestay family. It was a choice that made their family grow in more ways than one, it gave them the opportunity to love someone who needs a family close by, and fulfill the Great Commission.

More than a decade ago, when Susanne was two years of age, my husband's colleague and friend from Columbia, South America, asked if we would homestay his four children (two at a time) over the course of two years, successively. I remember saying, “That salesman is unabashedly asking us for the moon!” and, He’s got a lot of nerve!” I wasn’t sure, but my husband said yes! So they came, two by two and they attended AACS. And guess what happened? I grew to love the children! They were delightful, fun, respectful, and yes, they became family. Isn’t that just like God? He takes us kicking and screaming, and leads us into a “God” opportunity, only to turn the tables and bless us? How humbling and faith building! So this was the beginning…  When we heard that AACS offered homestay students from China, we were immediately interested but kept praying and thinking about the possibility. Not long after, we met with the coordinator and brought Rachel Li into our home. It’s no surprise that she has become family to us. So now, instead of three girls, we have four. Life is crazy (I always wanted a passel of kids anyway)! 

So, would we say “yes” to another homestay student? Absolutely! When you welcome a homestay student into your home your family grows, your children experience immersion on their turf, you get to love someone who needs a family close by, and you fulfill the Great Commission. Yes, there will be adjustments, and yes, it is a family commitment, but AACS undergirds your efforts so you will not minister alone. In addition, there is a stipend which supports your decision, and you can choose to homestay for a year, or more. In closing, what goals do you have for your family? As a parent, I find it easy to look to the needs of my own family, but Scripture also tells us to look to the needs of others. Rachel has become a believer in Christ; talk about an eternal investment! The Bible says, “Whatever you do to the least of these, my brethren, you do unto me.” We are all the least of these. If God should call you to welcome a homestay student into your home, your ministry will be ETERNAL!  

God’s blessings from the Whitney Family.

The Bayden's Story

One of our Seniors, Zihan Ma has been living with Dan and Toni Baden for the past two semesters. Read their personal account of the impact and beauty of hosting an International student.

We have thoroughly enjoyed having an International Student in our home this year. Our situation is unique, in that we do not have other children in our home. This was our 1st in 26 years of not having our own children at home (our daughter graduated from AACS in 2016). There will be challenges anytime you are incorporating a teenager into a family. That being said, our experience has greatly changed our lives for the better. Our minds have been opened to a larger world view. I so appreciate the opportunity we have and especially the courage it takes from the student's perspective. The International students come to a entirely new environment, culture, school, language, etc. without the security of their own family nearby. That makes them extremely vulnerable but the student is willing to trust us to care for them.

We have come to love this young man as our own, and refer to him as our Chinese son. I always encourage him to share his perspective with us (not saying "yes" or trying to "please us," as is their culture). One thing I have encouraged and appreciate is being asked "why" (when I do something). It has made me "think" and be more deliberate in what I do and say. An example was bringing home a Christmas tree and being asked why we put it in our house. I don't know, we always have done it that way all my life. I googled the origin and learned something new. This happens ALL THE TIME! Our family has learned much this year.

We purchased a wok and have enjoyed cooking together, Asian cuisine (which is a new experience for him too). Sharing our culture and Maryland traditions has been a joy (like cooking & eating crabs, our families birthday traditions, boating on the Chesapeake Bay, attending MD State Fair and watching pig races).

I can say that I have laughed more this year than any other year in my life. We find humor in our differences and our perspectives. We pray together each day as we drive to school (we hold hands while praying because I did with my children). This was awkward at first but has created an incredibly deep bond between us. We have many open-honest conversations that have greatly blessed both his life and our families members lives.

Yes, it is different and can be difficult, but isn't that what we are called as Christians to be: set apart for God's use. This summer my husband, daughter and I are planning to go to China to stay with his family. Which is very exciting for us and something we would have never considered before hosting our student. We call ourselves "family" and wish to share our cultures together. I know that God is going to use this in our lives in amazing ways. We will see, first hand, how difficult it can be being immersed into a totally different environment. This year He has afforded us the rare privilege to share Jesus in another person, in our home on a daily basis, that has exponential potential for  when he returns to China and ultimately for God's Kingdom.